My favorite article from this issue had to be the following...enjoy!
Pride of Place
Southern Living: Weddings 2012
"A Southern wedding incorporates time-honored cultural traditions but continually evolves,
as modern couples bring fresh perspectives to the rituals of matrimony."
2. Burying the Bourbon
Burying an unopened bottle of bourbon one month before the wedding, at the exact time of the wedding, at the site of the wedding, ensures good weather on the day of the event.
Hundreds of years ago, five almonds or pieces of candy representing fertility, health, wealth, happiness and longevity were distributed at weddings. Jordan almonds have long been a staple of Southern weddings. In fact, there was a time when cheese straws and these candy-clad nuts comprised the entire reception menu.
4. Crowd Control
One could be forgiven for mistaking the typical Southern bridal party for a college mixer. Bridesmaids numbering more than a dozen is not uncommon at Southern weddings. The reason? The bride graduates from college with a vast collection of friends, including many sorority sisters, with whom she will remain close throughout her life. The groom, too, will have numerous fraternity brothers and favorite companions. Southerners value friendship, and it shows, especially when it comes time to line up for the photographer.
A newly married couple's first dance is a sweetly sentimental highlight of many wedding receptions across the South. Make a departure from the expected with our list of get-your-groove-on songs options, all by Southern artists. These selections were chosen by Scott Register, native of Birmingham and host of the popular radio show Reg's Coffee House.
Sinking Wishes by Matthew Perryman Jones
No One Has To Know by Eliot Morris
Now That I Found You by Paul McDonald
Sweeter Than This by Katie Herzig
Lover's Waltz by A.A. Bondy
Wedding Day by Alejandro Escovedo
Such Great Heights by Iron and Wine
My Love is With You All the Time by Jon Black
The Friend Song by Drivin' N' Cryin'
Libations served in Mason jars are the must-have detail of the modern Southern wedding. They add a touch of rustic charm, are inexpensive, and readily available. Check out ruffledblog.com, where brides offload extra supplies, such as Mason jars, at huge discounts.
7. Gospel Choir
The inspiring sound of a gospel choir ringing out during your wedding contributes a hefty does of the sacred to the ceremony. Visit local churches to find a dynamic ensemble, and prepare to watch grown men tear up. Can I get an "Amen"?
And the winner of Favorite Men's Wedding Attire goes to...the saddle oxford. This old-school footwear is simultaneously nostalgic and cool. Paired with a poplin suit, the look is the current favored Southern wedding uniform. The saddle oxford's close cousin, the white buck, is another approved choice. An added bonus: These shoes make every man look like a Southerner.
9. Table Talk
Kathy and Brian Best of Front Porch Farms, a wedding venue in Tennessee, have come up with the ultimate wedding day souvenir. Brian will construct a farm table from reclaimed barn wood. At the reception, guests sign the surface with their well wishes for the newlyweds. Post wedding, it can take center state in your family pitches and offer up those wedding day memories on a daily basis for decades to come.
10. Tech Speak
The Web offers a plethora of inspiration for the modern bride. Wedding blogs, such as stylemepretty.com and snippetandink.com, can get your creative juices flowing and can be a great resource for vendors from paper goods designers to wedding planners. Just keep local traditions in mind, and avoid falling in love with a theme that doesn't suit your environment. Facebook and Twitter can be valuable tools, allowing you to share pictures from the engagement session and pre-wedding parties. But don't forgo the proper paper invitation - there's still no substitute for a heavy, hand-addressed envelope delivered by the postman.
Southern brides have embraced the Victorian tradition of baking silver charms into the wedding cake and having their single friends each pull one out before the cake cutting. Each design symbolizes a fortune: the four leave clover means "lucky you," and the ring signifies "next to marry."_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
After reading this article, I realized some of these rituals I had never heard of, like the bourbon one, but others are very familiar to my Southern roots. On the number of bridesmaids, I had ten, although five of them were my sisters, so it was going to be big either way. As for my wedding song, my husband and I danced to Al Green's Let's Stay Together, and I still LOVE it to this day! I haven't heard of many of the songs listed above. I'll need to check them out.
As far as Mason jars, we didn't have them, but I think they're a great Southern touch to any wedding! Speaking of, stay tuned for this week's Thirsty Thursday cocktail, I've got a great Southern Living: Weddings recipe to share with you, a Mint Julep Sweet Tea - a sweet tea with a kick, for true Southern flavor!
How cool is the table signing idea? So original, so resourceful and one that you and your husband will love for years and years down the road.
The charms in the cake is a great idea, and I actually did it with my bridesmaids, but we didn't do it with the wedding cake, like they did in the article. My bridesmaids actually pulled charms out of the cake at the bridesmaids luncheon, and talked about why they chose that specific charm for me. I then took all ten charms and used them for a wedding charm bracelet. A fun memento that I will always share with all of my bridesmaids.
Did y'all perform, or are going to perform, any of these traditions at your wedding?
Did you and your spouse have a Southern ritual that they left out?
The issue also highlights 25 real Southern weddings with wonderful photos and ideas for the big day, wedding day style tips featuring merchants based in the South, dreamy cake designs, unique bouquets, invitations for every budget and more. Grab a copy of Southern Living: Weddings ($11.99) at your local grocery store/book store, when you get a chance. Available on newsstands now, through April 6th!
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